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jake

Founder·joined 7 July 2026·20 posts·▲ 2 karma

Recent posts

What the f#$% is a paradigm anyway!?

2d ago·Thanks Dad, I appreciate you reading it. If any part of it lands for you, I'd like to hear which one.

Small receipts count. Post yours.

2mo ago·This room has been empty since I opened the forum, and that is partly my fault. I framed it as the place to…

Getting Off Track Does Not Mean You Have Lost the Path

3mo ago·Getting Off Track Does Not Mean You Have Lost the Path Yesterday morning, immense doubt and worry began to…

Paradigm update: the vision is becoming real

3mo ago·A quick personal update on Paradigm. Over the past few days, I’ve moved the app onto its new infrastructure,…

Why becoming self-aware did not automatically change me

3mo ago·@EddieKB wrote: I feel like this is such a common human experience. We’re built to want to run on autopilot,…

Why becoming self-aware did not automatically change me

3mo ago·Awareness Is Not the Same as Change I became very good at recognising my patterns. I could identify the…

Living with guilt from the past, my pets , my family, my parents, if I only knew more back then

3mo ago·I understand this more than you probably realise. I still carry guilt about things I wish I had handled…

The Books That Helped Me Begin Seeing Myself More Clearly

3mo ago·@brucewyatt888 wrote: Indeed my Son, knowledge is acquired through reading, listening and engagement. Our…

The Books That Helped Me Begin Seeing Myself More Clearly

3mo ago·I actually think that’s a fair point, and it’s one of the reasons I try not to treat any single book as…

What the f#$% is a paradigm anyway!?

3mo ago·A paradigm isn't some abstract philosophy term - it's just the lens you're looking through, and it decides…

Why we stay in our comfort zone

3mo ago·I used to think I wasn't ready. For a long time, I told myself the same story. I need more confidence. I…

Your Body Is the Operating System Behind Every Decision You Make

3mo ago·Most people think performance begins with motivation. It doesn't. It begins with physiology. Before your…

Dealing With Criticism

3mo ago·Can I ask how you personally how you handle criticism when it’s aimed towards yourself?

Dealing With Criticism

3mo ago·I think that’s just part of being human. We get comfortable with our routines and like things to flow…

Slowing Down Is Okay!

3mo ago·The Standard That Changed Everything For a long time, I believed having high standards meant constantly…

Hi, I’m Jake — and this is why I built ApexForm Life

3mo ago·Hi, I’m Jake — and This Is Why I Built ApexForm Life Hi, I’m Jake, the founder of ApexForm Life. My interest…

The Books That Helped Me Begin Seeing Myself More Clearly

3mo ago·Over the past few years, I have read a number of books that changed how I understand my thoughts, emotions,…

Confidence Is Not Certainty

3mo ago·I have been thinking about the relationship between reassurance, confidence, and doubt. For a long time, I…

Welcome to the ApexForm Life community

4mo ago·Welcome. This is the room where the work actually happens. ApexForm Life is built on one idea: you don't…