For individuals · Coaching

Start with
the pattern.
Find a different
next step.

You can recognise something you keep doing and still find yourself doing it again. Bring one recurring pattern into focus, explore what may be keeping it in place, and consider a response you can try.

Find your starting point How the work unfolds

A question to begin with

“What keeps
happening,
even when
I intend
otherwise?”

One situation.
Your own words.
A place to start.

A more useful starting point

Something specific.
Something familiar.

You might keep taking on too much, put off a decision until it becomes urgent, or return to a way of working you meant to leave behind. For founders and people leading a team, that might show up in delegation, a difficult conversation or a decision you keep reopening.

You do not need a complete explanation to begin. Start with one situation you can describe. The work is to examine the pattern with curiosity, then make the next experiment concrete.

This is educational and developmental work. It is not therapy, diagnosis, medical care or crisis support, and it does not promise a particular personal outcome.

Choose your starting point

Different ways
into the same work.

Start with the format that fits the question you have now. There is no prescribed sequence.

01

A written perspective

One loop,
decoded.

Free. Send a voice note of up to three minutes and receive a written decode by email within 48 hours. Bring one recurring situation to examine.

Explore the decode
02

A private conversation

Paradigm
Reset.

A$1,450 including GST for a 60-minute private video session. Examine one defined pattern and identify a practical direction to test in everyday life.

Explore the session
03

At your own pace

The Paradigm
app.

Use voice reflections and your personal history to consider possible patterns. Read the interpretations, decide what fits, and return to what you have noticed.

Explore Paradigm
04

A live workshop

Paradigm
Foundations.

A$395 per seat including GST for a live two-hour workshop. Explore how you interpret and respond to situations, with a guided exercise to examine a pattern of your own.

Explore the workshop

The ApexForm Method

Notice.
Understand.
Change.

A structure for examining what happens, questioning your first explanation, and trying a different response.

  1. Notice what repeats.

    Describe the situation, what you noticed, what you told yourself and what you did next. Begin with a concrete example.

  2. Understand the possible pattern.

    Explore the beliefs and interpretations that may be shaping your response. Treat an explanation as something to examine, not a verdict.

  3. Change one next step.

    Choose a different response to try. Decide what you will look for afterwards, so reflection connects to what actually happens.

An illustrative example

“I say yes.
Then I run out of room.”

A fictional everyday scenario.
Not an assessment or a client result.

Notice
“When someone asks for help, I agree before checking what I already have on.”
Understand
“One possibility: I am treating being available as proof that I am useful. Does that fit?”
Change
“Next time, I will check my commitments before answering. Afterwards, I will notice what changed.”

Looking for longer support?

Explore an enquiry about the 90-Day Identity Redesign or the Executive Intensive. Discuss the scope and fit before committing.

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The thinking behind the method: Beyond the Snapshot, a working paper. DOI 10.5281/zenodo.22771705. Not peer-reviewed.

Before you begin

A little more
context.

Choose a starting point with a clear sense of what the work involves.

Do I need to know what the pattern is?

You can begin with a situation you keep encountering. Describe what happens and what you tend to do next. The different formats above give you ways to explore it without needing a complete explanation first.

What should I expect from a Reset session?

The current service focuses on one recurring pattern in a private video session: its context, the interpretations and responses around it, and a practical direction to try. Review the session page for the current scope, fee, booking and cancellation terms.

Do I have to use the app first?

You can explore the written decode, session or workshop directly. The app is another way to reflect on your own experience; it is not presented here as a required first step. Explore the app to see how it differs from working with a person.

How is personal information handled?

Check the privacy notice and consent information for your chosen service before sharing a recording or personal details. See the company privacy policy for the website and services, and the separate Paradigm app privacy policy for the app. Follow the instructions on the relevant service page and share only what is needed.

Is this therapy or mental-health treatment?

No. These coaching services are educational and developmental. They do not provide diagnosis, psychotherapy, medical care or crisis support, and they are not a substitute for qualified clinical care.

Begin where you are

One pattern.
One place to start.

You do not have to work through everything at once. Choose the question and the format that make sense for you now.

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